With the popularity of Lingerie boutiques in shopping malls across America the stigma of buying and wearing lingerie is now a thing of the past. However for women who’ve never bought lingerie before or are still a little shy about visiting a store here’s our guide for styles you are likely to encounter.

Baby Doll Set
A baby doll set encompasses a large category of lingerie items. Basically it’s a two piece set, consisting of a robe or loose billowy top and matching bottom. The top is always loose fitting and comes in just below the bust line, like an empire bodice. The top is very loose fitting and short, ending at or just below your rear. Baby doll sets are available in wide variety of fabrics from silk and satin to sheer lace.

Chemise
A chemise is a short flowing A-line gown that’s longer than a baby doll. The top usually has spaghetti or halter straps. The angular shape of a chemise looks good on almost every figure type. If you are concerned about your mid-section look for a style that has built in figure control. Sometimes a chemise comes with a matching bottom, but this varies from style to style. The fabric choices range from patterned and solid silks to very revealing lace, so there is something for everyone’s taste.

Camisole
A camisole is female undershirt. It is loose fitting and has thin spaghetti straps that go over the shoulder. It’s usually paired with a matching bottom. Camisoles are now also available as outwear. While they are not usually worn as formal office attire, they can be worn for casual occasions.

Corset
A corset is the opposite of a camisole. It’s a structured garment that has bones or ribs to force your body into certain proportions. The effects of a corset can be very dramatic, and can create a very enticing curvy shape. Some corsets are more difficult to wear than others, depending on how much shaping they are doing. If you’ve never worn one before choose something that’s not so difficult to get into. Corsets are also now being made as outwear. While not something you would wear to the office, they are perfect for a dinner party, club or night on the town.

Bridal Set
A bridal set or merry widow as it’s sometimes known also covers a wide variety of items. Basically it’s a set that consists of a bra, corset or camisole top. It also has matching panties, and usually a garter belt and stockings. The styles range from silk or satin sets with full coverage to skimpy string sets with very minimal overage.

Boy Shorts
If you’ve never heard of boy shorts think of sexy hot pants for your bedroom. They offer full coverage on the sides and some coverage on your rear. Conservative styles cover most if not all of your rear, the more daring styles give you partial coverage. Boy shorts are figure hugging or shaping, something those of us with less than perfect bodies will appreciate. They come in wide variety of fabric choices from comfortable cotton to see through lace.

Bikini
Bikini bottoms offer full coverage on your rear, and have thin straps on the side. They are available in loose fitting of figure hugging styles in a wide variety of fabric choices.

Thong
A thong offers full to minimal coverage in the front, and has thin sides usually 1” to ½” in width that come to a t shape in the rear. The t-shape gives you practically no coverage on your rear. Thongs are now worn just as frequently outside of the bedroom as they are in it. If you are wearing tight, or figure hugging clothing a thong is your best solution to combat visible panty line. Cotton, lycra or micro-fiber fabrics are the most comfortable for extended wear thongs.

G-String
While the back of a thong has very minimal coverage with a narrow strip a g-string offers you no coverage, with a simple single strand or string, usually 1/8” or less in width, not for the faint of heart.

Garter Belt
A garter belt is made of piece of fabric that wraps around your hips and usually has four straps (one for the front and back of each leg). Sometimes the straps are attached to the lower edge of a corset or camisole top. These straps attach to the top of stockings, holding them up. The proper way to wear a garter belt is to attach the stockings first, then put on your panties. While this may look strange you’ll understand why the first time you need to visit the bathroom.

Author: Christine McClinden of 6ln.com which features women’s fashion items including lingerie, and shoes.

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As an extension of the wedding celebration, of course you will want your honeymoon to go smoothly and to be fun for you and your spouse. Of course, the honeymoon is a chance to buy and wear some new clothing to celebrate your new life as a married couple, and while your focus is to be on the outerwear, don’t neglect the lingerie for your honeymoon as well. New clothing for the bedroom can help create the right atmosphere for getting closer with your spouse, for sleeping, and for going through your routine. To help you purchase well when you buy lingerie for your honeymoon, here are some tips:

Even if you purchase some lingerie for your honeymoon with the intention of spicing things up in the bedroom, be sure to buy something that’s a little more conservative and tasteful for your collection. Even a simple chemise can look attractive without being too revealing. Keeping the majority of your lingerie on your honeymoon tasteful also ensures that should housekeeping burst into the hotel room or your curtains allow anyone to see in, even a little, you’ll be decent.

Just because the lingerie on your honeymoon should be tasteful, however, doesn’t mean you need to skimp on the material it’s made of. Silk and satin are materials that are soft on the skin and comfortable to wear, which is what you’ll want when you’re trying for a little romance in the bedroom. Not only will you feel better wearing such nice things on your body, but it will better encourage your spouse to hold you when cuddling at night, or in the morning, which is what you want while on your honeymoon.

While you’re out shopping for lingerie for your honeymoon, don’t neglect your husband, either. Just as new lingerie for your honeymoon will make you feel better at bedtime, so will some new bed wear for him, as well. Buy a pair of silk or satin pajamas or boxers for your husband, and he’s almost certain to appreciate the care you’ve taken in helping him to look elegant in the bedroom. And while you’re buying some pajamas for him, consider looking for some his and hers bathrobes that match. Not only will it be a gift that helps to reaffirm your new life together, but also it’ll make a nice look as you lounge around during lazy mornings during your honeymoon. With just a little care, you’ll find that you have some great selections of lingerie for your honeymoon.

About the Author: James Gunaseelan writes for Leading matrimonial portal for Brahmins brides and grooms

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Most men know nothing about picking out lingerie, which is understandable because it can be confusing. What type of lingerie to buy, what size, what color - how is a man to know? Here is a little guide to help you when choosing lingerie for that special someone.

There are a few things to consider before you go out. What does she like? Remember that you will not be wearing this - she will and you should go out with the intent on getting something she will like. If she is not into lacey, tiny, see-through teddies, chances are if you buy that, she will not be in much of a mood to wear it and you may never see it. So keep what she likes in mind.

If you do not know, check out her nightgown/lingerie drawer before you leave. Check for material type (cotton, silk, etc.), colors, and most importantly, size. She may be flattered if she wears a large and you get her a small, but if she wears a small and you buy her a large, you may find yourself in trouble. Avoid anything that says "control" on the label. Those items are used to firm and flatten tummys and rears and she would probably not appreciate receiving them as a gift.

Another thing to remember is if the store offers to wrap the lingerie let them. Dainty lingerie will look better in their wrapping than if you wrap it in the paper left over from your cousin's birthday. Presentation is part of the package with lingerie. Also, if you are uncomfortable in the store, check out online stores that sell lingerie. You can always start at Victoria's Secret, but most major department stores like Macys and Nordstroms also sell lingerie. Final note - remember to keep your receipt just in case it is the wrong style, size, or color.

Now, what type of lingerie is available? Just about anything you can think of! Ask yourself what the occasion is. Is this to let her know you love her? If so, something crotchless or see-through probably will not send that message. But, if it is for Valentine's Day or your anniversary, something a little more risqué might be appreciated. Bras alone have many different styles including push up, plunge, gel filled, padded, under wire, seamless, backless, strapless, open cup, and unpadded.

If you are purchasing a bra and panty set, always check out what she has in her drawer beforehand and definitely make note of the size - of both the bra and panties. Most places sell at least one pair of panties that match each bra, but some will sell several so you can mix and match. It will help to know what type of panties she likes to wear too - thongs, briefs, or high cut bikini.

When it comes to sleepwear, it can be just as confusing. One type of sleepwear is babydoll pajamas. They usually have very thin straps, a plunging V neckline, and are very short with matching panties. You will find most of these made out of silk or satin, materials that always make a woman feel good about herself. But, if she feels her breasts are too big or too small, or thinks her stomach is too big, you might want to avoid babydoll pajamas.

There are slips and chemises. Similar to the babydoll pajamas, these are a little longer and a little better at concealing problem areas such as breasts, butt or stomach. They too are usually made of silk or satin.

Gowns are full-length versions of the babydoll. Many are see-through or lacey and can help put your woman in the mood. Babydolls, slips, chemises, and gowns may also come with a robe.

A pajama set might not sound too sexy, but if it is silky, and buttons up the front, it can make your woman feel very sexy, especially if she is a plus size (size 18 or larger). Boxer sets have become very popular lately. The tops are tight, with thin straps and usually a V neckline, although there are boxer sets with normal t-shirt tops.

If you are really looking for lingerie to spice up your love life, take a look at Frederick's of Hollywood (available online). They have been selling sexy lingerie for over 50 years. They have a wide variety of garter belts, bustiers, corsets, teddies (similar to the babydoll, but one piece), crotchless panties, and fishnet stockings - items that may not be available at many stores that sell lingerie.

What type of lingerie you should get your love depends a lot on her self-esteem. Many big woman love sexy little teddies, but some will shy away from them, for fear of exposing too much of themselves. Most stores sell lingerie in plus sizes, which are a little less revealing. If she is really athletic, a boxer set might be something she would like. Thin women will look good in anything, but especially teddies, corsets, and babydolls.

When shopping for lingerie, try to keep in mind what she likes. If you purchase something similar to the lingerie she already has and in colors you know she likes, it will probably make her happy. But, keep the receipt just in case!

The female body form is mysterious, sexy, alluring, and enticing. One form of the female silhouette that has had an exciting and attractive presence in every woman’s life, through the ages, and is known not just for its miraculous seduction prowess, but also for its ability to evoke and rapture - is the lingerie.

Lingerie plays a vital role in a woman’s life. Lingerie is not just close to the woman’s heart (no pun intended) but it is also the closest to her and enhances her sexuality like no other piece of clothing. But, the most important thing about a lingerie item is the fit. There’s no denying that perfectly well-fitted lingerie can accentuate the female form, sensuality and outfit with aplomb. So, let’s steal a look into the wonderfully intimate world of beautiful, lacy, sheer, satin, fashionable, trendy, lavish and stylish world of lingerie. Whether you are a plus size woman, or a bride-to-be, or want to bring the passion back into your relationship nothing really works to ignite the fire and spread the warmth like beautifully created lingerie!

Lingerie Power
Need we say more? Oh well, whatever your reason for picking up lingerie, you must choose a lingerie based on your mood, preference in design, style, comfort, and purpose. Before you set your feet out for lingerie shopping get to know yourself better. Do you need lingerie that emphasizes your bodily curves, or do you need it to spice up your sex life or you need lingerie to pamper yourself? Whatever your reason, trust us - there is more than one type of intimate apparel for any occasion you may have in mind.

When you shop for lingerie, stop for a minute to consider the power of this intimate apparel. It stimulates the imagination, makes you look seductive, sexy, and "all-powerful." While shopping in malls may be the usual way to pick lingerie, consider shopping for it online. Online shopping malls offer a wide range of lingerie in different materials – cotton, satin, lace, silk, leather etc – as well as latest designs and styles. This website serves all your needs with a smile, and has experts advising you to choose the most exciting and sensual piece of lingerie that can flatter your body and make you feel like a Diva!

Never make the mistake of underestimating the power of lingerie because not only does it boost your self-confidence, but also does wonders for your love life. Strut your stuff with confidence in glamorous, sexy, sheer, lingerie and watch your man drool!

Lingerie Secrets
Having familiarized yourself with the lingerie power, its time for us to reveal the lingerie secrets! Ladies, lingerie is available in 3 basic sizes – small, medium, and large. However, if you are voluptuous then plus-size lingerie is ideal for you. Corsets and bustiers are widely popular amongst plus-size women buyers.

Special lingerie like Bridal lingerie caters to the very special needs of a newly-married girl or a bride-to-be. To make you look your ravishing best on your wedding day, you can wear a gorgeous bustier or lacy bridal lingerie that enhances the sensuality of your wedding dress. Nowadays, more and more brides-to-be prefer to wear white or off-white corsets with long flowing gowns.
World-wide, women have taken to lingerie shopping like never before. For a tempting and alluring effect buy sheer lingerie. Made from power mesh (See-through), stretch mesh material, or transparent fabrics, sheer lingerie is immensely popular amongst women belong to 20s and 30s. Lycra lingerie is again a popular choice. Lightweight and stretchable, Lycra lingerie is forming fitting and tear-resistant.

Base your decision to purchase lingerie based on the use and purpose. The 3 rules of lingerie shopping need to be based on:

* How best the lingerie enhances your body’s special features?
* Does it cover the specific parts of your body properly and comfortably?
* Does it make you look exotic, attractive, and beautiful inside-out?

Lingerie Fabrics
The fabrics define the comfortable or feel of the lingerie against your skin. If you score comfort as the most important thing then cotton lingerie is perfect for you. It is reasonably priced, long-lasting, and easy to care for. Other fabric choices include Lycra/Spandex, nylon, leather, chiffon, silk, microfiber etc. Lycra lingerie is stretchable and form fitting, easy to watch, and care for and wrinkle-free! Choose a fabric that feels good against your skin, doesn't cause you rashes, and is likely to last longer with minimal wear and tear. After all, you will be wearing lingerie through out the day.

Lingerie Guide
Here's our guide to help you decide which lingerie is best for you.

1. Bra: A versatile support providing commonest lingerie.
2. Teddy: It is like a one-piece swimming suit but with a built- in panty area.
3. Camisole: One of my favorites. Can be worn under a formal jacket or as a sleeveless top; it covers you from bust to hips.
4. Chemise: A thigh length short nightgown
5. Thongs: Made from transparent fabric, thongs offer more coverage in the front and are help up by a string-like piece. Allows you freedom from panty lines
6. Negligee: A nightgown or robe that is longer and lightweight
7. Pajamas: A pant and top set
8. Bustier: A type of strap-less bra that covers up to up to the waist
9. Basque: A bra substitute that covers from the bust to hips

As a thumb rule to buying the best lingerie, remember only invest in one that promotes your self-confidence and makes you look and feel like a Goddess. Because you are no less!

Valentine's Day may be over but plus size lingerie is still red hot! Red is going to be THE color this season, in all types of plus lingerie, from sexy plus baby dolls and bustiers to plus gowns, panties, and chemises.

Here are just a few of the red hot plus size lingerie designs that women will be requesting and wearing this upcoming season:

Burnout Baby Dolls

Burnout is simply a term for alternating patterns of sheer and opaque fabric. Burnout is featured predominantly in plus baby dolls this season. One particularly red hot style is a burnout baby doll featuring a tie-die pattern and paired with matching short, burnout tie-front robe.

Stretch Satin Jacquard Bustiers

Satin jacquard is a fabric that never seems to go out of style. You will find this lovely, intricately-woven, patterned material featured predominantly in plus corsets and bustiers. One fiery red hot stretch satin jacquard design that's certain to be a big seller is a beautiful red bustier with a form-fitting style and hidden under-wire cups.

Microfiber Chemises

Microfiber is a fine synthetic material that is breathable, washable and water-repellent. This soft, drape-able material is particularly popular this season in plus chemises. One smoking hot microfiber design is a comfortable, lace trimmed chemise that's drapes over luscious curves in just the right spots!

Long Charmeuse Gowns

Charmeuse, which is a satin-finished silk fabric, lends its wonderful draping quality beautifully to long gowns and robes. One flaming hot charmeuse design that is going to be in demand is an elegant, long, stretch halter gown with lace under-wire cups, a super sexy side slit and a low back with six adjustable crisscross straps.

Open-Front Crotchless Panties

Crotchless panties are a staple in every sexy plus womans wardrobe. Crotchless panties can be feminine yet flirty when accented with lace, ribbons and bows. This season, one design that is smoldering hot is a red, open-front, design that is accented with soft lace along the top and a tiny red bow in the center.

From burnout baby dolls to open-front crotchless panties, plus lingerie styles are sizzling! These are just a few of the red hot plus size lingerie designs that will be adorning voluptuous curves everywhere this season. Plus size women all lead busy, hectic lives. Indulging in a few of the hottest plus lingerie styles is a great way to relax and be appreciated and adored for the irresistible, gorgeous woman that you are!

As women today, it's all too easy to let our sensuality wane. After all, we have demanding careers, kids who need our love and attention, and a million errands to run and chores to do. The intimate relationships we have with our husbands or boyfriends often take a backseat to the activities that make up our life. It doesn't take much, though, to rediscover our sensuality and reignite our passion - some sizzling hot lingerie will do the trick almost every time.

You don't have to be Shirley of Hollywood or memorize the Kama Sutra to add some spice to your love life. You really just need a bit of time, some privacy, and some sizzling hot lingerie.

Time

No one ever has enough time, so you have to make it a point to carve out some time for you and your husband to be together. If you don't have kids, it's relatively easy to set aside one night a month for "date night." If you do have kids, well, that's why grandparents were invented. A sleepover at grandma's, your sister's house, or a good friend's house will give you and your mate an opportunity to have a leisurely evening, night, and morning alone. That should rekindle the flames!

Privacy

Privacy is paramount when it comes to a successful date night. That means more than tucking the kids away at a relative's house. It also means a commitment to spending the evening without interruption: an agreement to not answer the house phone, turn off your cell phones, and resist the temptation to sneak off to check your email. If you don't think that's possible, consider spending the night at a local hotel. You may only be a few miles from home, but it will give you the psychological space to truly relax and enjoy yourself.

Sizzling Hot Lingerie

There's no denying that men are visual creatures, and some sexy lingerie will go a long way to rekindle the passion you share. Surprise him by "slipping into something more comfortable" and coming out in a bustier, corset, baby doll, or camisole. You never know - he may have a few ideas of his own and be wearing men's sexy underwear, have rose petals sprinkled on the bed, or have flavored massage oil on the nightstand.

Regularly Indulging Your Sensuality

Every woman knows how hard it is to switch roles at a moment's notice. It's difficult to fix dinner, get the kids bathed and put to bed, and then - snap - turn into a seductress. Try too hard, and you'll either give up or start resenting your mate.

One of the things that makes it easier to kindle the passion that you and your husband share is to regularly indulge your sensuality. That might mean carving out some alone time to go on a walk by yourself, to take a bubble bath, or to have a regular manicure and pedicure. It can also mean wearing lingerie everyday that makes you feel sensuous. Your co-workers don't need to know that you're wearing a sexy bra and panty set under your business suit, or that you're wearing stockings and garters instead of pantyhose. Your husband doesn't even have to know. The important thing is that you'll know, and that you'll carry an awareness of your sensuality with you throughout the day. Over time, you'll find it much easier to switch from mommy to lover at the end of the day. And when you do, you'll have your sizzling hot lingerie to show off to your husband.

It is no secret that women like lingerie. While men often like to see women wearing lingerie, women enjoy even more wearing lingerie. Good lingerie can make a woman feel sexy, no matter what she is wearing on the outside. Inside, she knows that she is wearing sexy lingerie and it gives her confidence. The feeling of sexy confidence is just one reason why women like lingerie.

Over the centuries, women have used lingerie in many different ways. Corsets were in fashion up until about 60 years ago and women would bind themselves into corsets to get what used to be called an hourglass figure. It was desirable, in the early part of the 20th century, for women to have small waists. For this reason, girls were often put into corsets at a young age so that their waists would not get large. It was uncomfortable, unhealthy and restricting to say the least. Nowadays, women like lingerie for the way it feels on their skin as well as the way it makes them feel about themselves.

Lingerie is still used to improve what are often seen as flaws in the figure of a woman. Women will wear control type panties if they wish to flatten their stomach and buttocks. Women with small chests will wear push up bras or padded bras to give them more cleavage and allow their clothing to look better on them. In the mirror, a woman will examine herself in lingerie and like what she sees as she will often purchase products that will enhance her figure and hide her flaws.

In addition to being figure flattering, lingerie will make someone feel sexy. It is normal for a woman to wear sexy undergarments or nightgowns when going to bed to try to evoke passion in her mate. A woman uses lingerie to invoke the sense of sight when arranging for a romantic evening with her partner. She will often wear enticing lingerie that she knows will arouse him.

The feeling of such fabrics as silks and satin on bare skin is pleasing to most women and this is yet another reason why women like lingerie. Good lingerie uses quality fabrics, such as silk, that feels good against the skin. There is much lingerie in the silk line that make a woman feel comfortable as well as sexy.

Even women who are single and without a significant other in their lives revel in lingerie. It is not only used to arouse a mate, but also as a confidence builder for any woman. A woman wearing sexy lingerie likes the way she looks in the mirror and knows that she will be desired. Just because a woman is single is no reason to give up wearing sexy lingerie. With the confidence that she gains by feeling good about herself on the inside, she will not be single long unless she chooses to be.

Fine fabrics, ribbons and laces have been coveted over the centuries by women who generally like to have feminine, pretty things. Many women enjoy the sensuality of just being a woman. They enjoy painting their nails, wearing make up, wearing certain scents and lotions and wearing feminine style clothing. In addition, women like lingerie because it makes them feel more like a woman in every way. It is not only, if purchased properly, used to enhance the figure, but also to make a woman feel more like a woman.

Each day, most women work hard the same way as men do. Many women work today in fields that were strictly only for men 30 years ago. It is nice for a woman who works in such a field to remind herself every once in a while that she is a woman. Although she may be wearing a hardhat and jeans, if underneath she is wearing a lacy camisole, she will feel very much like a woman. It is probably for this reason the most why women like lingerie.

It has become increasingly popular for couples to give lingerie as a gift, especially when you want to spice up your love life or turn the heat up a few notches. So, is giving lingerie an expression of love or lust? Or both? When a relationship has become more comfortable and you want to take it to a whole new level, giving not just lingerie but sexy lingerie can definitely make your relationship more interesting and exciting.

Sexy lingerie is provocative, attractive and extremely appealing to the senses, especially for men. Men get turned on very easily by anything that is visually stimulating. Lingerie if chosen and worn correctly can titillate the senses and drive your partner wild! So, sexy lingerie is a sure way to get your partner fired up and coming back for more.

There are many types of lingerie in the market today. Different types of lingerie can be worn for different occasions. I would personally favor exotic lingerie that are a little bit more unique in design, instead of the common usual stuff that you get at conventional lingerie stores. I would suggest that you try to choose something that is creatively designed and bold, so that you can make a great lasting impression on your partner. Let your intimate moments be so memorable that it will make every encounter special.

One of the most popular styles of exotic lingerie in the market today is the sexy thong. The sexy thong first hit the market in the 80’s and become mainstream in the 90s. In recent years, it has become one of the fasting growing categories in the lingerie industry.

A few years back, it was highly fashionable for women to wear loose, low cut jeans with a thong inside, together with clothes that showed the mid-rift. The thong and a little of the ladies’ upper buttocks would be purposely exposed by the drooping jeans or pants. This was an extremely sexy and fashionable way to dress just a few years ago.

Looking to buy your significant other lingerie as a gift? You’re a brave man, daring to go where most men’s knees shake and palms sweat in pure anxiety. Shopping for lingerie doesn’t have to be too frightening. For starters, forget having to walk into an all-too-feminine lingerie store in the mall where it feels like all eyes are on you. Try shopping online and you’ll find the experience to be much less traumatizing. Still, lingerie is a tricky gift, and there are some very useful tips to shopping for lingerie that will help you find the perfect selection for her. Trust me, if you find the right lingerie gift for the woman in your life. . . well, I don’t have to tell you just how rewarding that can be.

First things first: you have to get an idea of what size she is. If you’re living with your partner, this might be a little easier for you. A little investigating in the top drawer of her dresser can produce a good idea of her size. Don’t let all the numbers and letters confuse you. Bras are sized as a number followed by a letter. Remembering both of these is vital when shopping for lingerie, so write them down if you have to. For panties, chemises, and camisoles, you’ll be looking for numbers and letters as well. Those sized in numbers will be labeled as 5, 6, 7, 8, etc., and those sized in numbers will be labeled S, M, L, XL, etc. If you can’t search her dresser, try going on a shopping trip with her and see what size clothing she buys. If you’re truly desperate, find a woman you know that’s a similar size to your partner and ask her what you should be looking for. Just get a general idea of her size and this will put you way ahead of the game.

Almost as important as finding something in her size is finding something in her taste. You may think that lingerie is more a gift for you than for her, but you have to remember that when she feels comfortable and sexy, you’ll be the one who reaps the rewards. If she’s more flashy than frilly, go easy on the lacy selections. If she’s usually conservative, don’t try anything way too daring or you may not get the reaction you’re looking for. Take into account the clothing she usually wears and this may give you some ideas. Does she favor a particular color or style? Is her personality feminine, flirty, or downright sexy? Most likely you will be able to use this information when you shop online for lingerie.

If you’re still feeling a little confused about finding the right lingerie gift, stick to simple pieces. If you find that the sizing and selection of bra and panty sets is too complicated, try shopping for a simple chemise or babydoll. Women have an eye for detail, so a garment with a little lace or beading around the edges is sure to impress. Fabrics like silk and satin can make any woman feel sexy. Just remember that shopping for a lingerie gift online doesn’t have to be scary or complicated. Take your time and choose something that goes with her personality, and you’ll find the end result to be quite pleasurable.

So, you're thinking about buying lingerie for the woman (or man) in your life. A well chosen gift of lingerie is one of the most romantic things you can do. It is an intimate gift which can make lady feel sexy and loved. Purchase the right gift of lingerie and odds are you'll be invited to unwrap it later on. Choose the wrong lingerie and you will almost certainly live to regret it. This guide will show you how to choose the right gift of lingerie (the kind of gift that keeps on giving).

1. The lingerie is NOT for you

Yes, I know you think it's for you. But, if she won't wear it, then it's a gift that neither of you will enjoy. So you need to choose something that she will like. How do you know what she'll like? Just follow steps 2 and 3 below.

2. What's the occasion? Or, not occasion at all!

Are you buying her lingerie for a special occasion - birthday, Christmas, Valentine's Day, anniversary? A silky robe or sexy gown makes a great birthday or Christmas gift. For Valentine's Day or your anniversary try a babydoll, camisole, chemise, or teddy.

Maybe you're buying lingerie in order to to spice things up. Try giving her lingerie for no reason at all and see the reaction! Depending on her disposition you might want to try something in leather or vinyl. You can also play dress up with a sexy costume or corset.

Before you buy, you also need to think about how and where will the lingerie be worn? Is this an item that will be primarily worn in the bedroom, for your eyes only? Will she wear it under her everyday clothes? She might be willing to wear something that's somewhat uncomfortable for a few minutes in the bedroom, but she won't want to wear it all day long.

Don't forget that sexy clothes are a perfect compliment to lingerie. They can be worn to a club or for a night on the town.

3. Lingerie recon mission

This is something most men can handle - a reconnaissance mission. Feel free to wear fatigues if it helps. You're going to recon her underwear draw and closet. What are you looking for? On this mission you are searching for three pieces of intelligence - size, style, and color.

Part A - Size

First, you need to know her sizes. So, start by finding her bras. Look at the label. It probably says something like 34B or 36C. Just so you know, the number part is the size in inches around her chest just below the breasts. The letter portion represents cup size (the size of the breasts - A's are smaller than D's).

Next, try to find a slip, nightgown, or some of her current lingerie. Note the size - it's usually small, medium, large, x-tra large, etc. Check a few different items and choose the size that appears most often.

Part B - Style

Now look through her current lingerie and clothes. What styles does she prefer? If all of her panties are briefs, she might not wear a thong (on the other hand maybe she's just waiting for an excuse). If she's never worn leather or vinyl you might need to introduce these type of items gradually. You can start with just panties or a bra. These are not too extreme and are inexpensive.

Part C - Color

Finally, note the color of her underwear, bras, and lingerie. Who cares about color you ask? Well, she probably does. Some colors might look better on her. Also, if you're planning to buy her something to wear under her everyday clothes, certain colors (like red or black) might show through a sheer blouse. Having said all that, keep in mind that most women won't buy themselves hot red lingerie - this is your job!

4. How much to spend?

Remember, cheap lingerie will make her feel cheap. The good news is that high quality lingerie does not have to be expensive. A basic camisole and panty set usually sells for less than $20. Whatever your budget, you can find something she'll love.

5. Time to choose

Okay, you've gathered your intelligence and are ready to make a decision. You can travel to the mall and go to one of the large lingerie retailers. Or, better yet purchase online.